Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Love Vs Freedom!

It was really amazing when you think that you are going to enter into a new relationship.But sometimes I feel that, what makes a  relationship strong ?  Is that the love,care,understanding or a friendly's nature.
Seriously sometimes I feel like I had completed my PhD. on these.Its very difficult to understand one's feeling and his/her emotions,It may take whole life to understand a person.I met a nice gal in my life and that was only an affection, but in this real world it takes less time to convert that affection to love.Till now I didn't understand whether it was my mistake or I did really a awesome thing by loving her.
It will become very peculiar condition when a person to whom you are in love with, says to you that your esteemed love is like a golden cage for me,and due to that he/she looses their independence.And there after the situation will become so worst that you both started to fight together and ended with a one sided love.I never understand what is LOVE ?
I think Love is only deals with one's feelings and emotions.Apart from these two you are not going to attain anything from your partner or the love ones.What would you do if you love your kids, parents or pets?
There is always a single answer to this,that you will always keep them close to your presence.Have you heard anything like, let them free because you love them too much.

If you are in Love definitely you will try to take care of love one,your mind will change accordingly,you will start to enjoy the company and finally you will never let him go.And that becomes a reason for being independent for him/her.Now the last stage of love but ultimate one is called as "sacrifice".It is really hard to scarify your love and the same moment you itself will feel like you were in that golden cage and don't want your own freedom anymore.